16. When to let a story go

It’s pretty much objectively true that finishing stories is an excellent way to get better at finishing stories. This is true on both a practical level and a skills level — in addition to requiring persistence, writing endings is a technically difficult aspect of the craft, no matter what genre you’re writing.

But while getting to the end of a project is often excellent practice...  I don’t think it’s actually always best to push through to the finish. Sometimes pushing through becomes a reinforcement of unhelpful craft habits, ways of approaching our stories that we’re ready to outgrow but don’t know how to yet.

How can we know when we need to stick it out with a tricky project (even if we don’t really want to), vs when we need to let that project go (even if we don’t really want to)?

I’m sharing three key questions to help you discern the path forward when the writing gets tough, plus my best advice for what to do when it really is time to let a project go.

Writing praxis tip

This month, I’m sharing a special new resource for the pod community. The Creative Rescue Kit is a set of bite-sized but powerful tools to help anxious writers (like myself) get out of the drafting doom spiral and back onto the path of actually writing your stories.

These tools are also excellent for getting clear on how you’re really feeling about a current draft, and for unlocking inspiration for the road ahead.